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Dear Ate Helen,

I'm writing you about Ben. We're in our twenties and we both work in Makati.

In fact, we used to be officemates. I've known him for almost two years now

and all the time, I've been in love with him, although we are just friends

and he has a girlfriend he intends to marry.

Ate Helen, I can't help but fall in love with him. He's perfect;

responsible, intelligent, resourceful, thoughful, loving, sweet, caring,

upright, kind, family-oriented and a God-fearing individual. His good looks

is just an added bonus. I can't believe such a man still exists today and I

will forever be thankful for his friendship.

It pains me to be so in-love with him because he and his girlfriend are

perfect for each other and are so happy being together. I don't know if he's

aware of my feelings for him. But winning his heart, I think, is out of the

question.

His girlfriend is too precious for him. Losing her would truly hurt him, and

I don't want to see him in pain. I know, however, that a part of me wishes

for him to reciprocate my love. But he's just too good for me. He deserves

someone better, like the girl he has now.

Knowing he's happy with her is enough consolation for me. I want his

happiness even if it means my own despair. Goodness knows how much I'm

suffering. Writing this letter alone is already torture.

I've been trying very hard to forget him. I've done ways I know to free

myself. Pero ang kulit talaga ng puso ko, ayaw sumunod. Ate Helen, I haven't

seen or talked to him for a long time and I thought his absence would

somehow cool down the feeling, but it hasn't. I dont want to miss him, but I

do miss him terribly. How can I forget him?

Whenever I see a place, a thing or a situation, my mind automatically

associates it with him. His memories occupy most of my waking and sleeping

hours. His face pops into my mind in the middle of my lunch, when I'm

talking with my friends, cleaning our house or just doing something which

has nothing to do with him but reminds me of him anyway.

Odd, but true. I'm not bitter Ate Helen. I don't blame myself, him nor God

for this situation. As a matter of fact, I'm thankful, painfully odd as it

is, that this situation has made me the more mature person that I am now.

But I can't help ask myself why should a woman, or a man for that matter,

fall for another when they are not meant for each other? Why Ate Helen? Why?

You know Ate Helen, whenever I pray, I always ask God to help me let go of

this love. I just want to feel the same way he feels for me -- as a friend

and nothing more. I know I can get through this because I believe that God

wouldn't give me something He knows I can't handle.

Someday I will be able to smile again without being hurt when I remember

him. God has His reason for all of these and until I know the reasons, I

want to hear words from you. Please Ate Helen, help me.

Sincerely,

Robert



Ay bading....


Ate Helen's Advice:
Dear Robert,
Lintek kang bakla ka pinagod mo pa ako sa pagbasa ng letter mo! Malandi!

Tigilan mo na ang ilusyon mo, hindi mo kayang ibigay kay Ben ang kayang

ibigay ng girlfriend niya. Sa susunod na sumulat ka pa sa akin, ipapapatay

kita!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ate Helen